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At Relationship Matters, we often explore the complex interplay between body, brain, and behaviour in the context of healing, connection, and regulation. One surprising player in this dynamic system is a hormone produced not by the brain or glands, but by the bones themselves. Osteocalcin is a bone-derived hormone with powerful effects on the nervous system, metabolism, and stress response, key elements that shape our capacity to be present in relationship.
Read MoreKim recently sat down with OTs Jen Trzeciak and Dr Áine O'Dea from the Irish Occupational Therapy Podcast, a show that brings you the most up to date information, insights and chat from Occupational Therapy (OT) services across Ireland. This podcast has something for everyone interested in health and wellbeing.
Read MoreIn a recent conversation with lactation consultant and breastfeeding specialist Sejal Fichadia, we explored the complexities of caring for both babies and their caregivers. While many families call on Sejal when something feels wrong—difficulty with latching, bottle refusal, or feeding pain—her perspective widens the lens. Feeding, she reminds us, is never just about food. It is a dance of communication, co-regulation, and attachment between parent and child.
Read MoreThere’s a new documentary being released that we’d like to help promote in all corners of the world. It’s called Loving Karma. Its messages, shared through the lives of children in the remote Himalayas, are of resilience, compassion and ultimately renewed hope.
Read MoreWhether you’re a seasoned play therapist, an OT, or simply curious about trauma-informed care, this conversation will expand your lens, deepen your embodiment, and remind you that healing isn’t something we do to a child—it’s something that unfolds when we trust the wisdom of the body.
Read MoreIn February 2026, Kim will be delivering Moving to Higher Ground once again in Bali, Indonesia. Moving to Higher Ground is a unique clinical mentorship program led by Kim alongside a team of experienced and international co-facilitators. Kim has delivered MTHG worldwide since 2001, offering a holistic, trans-disciplinary, neurobiology-informed, strength-based, and relationship-focused experience.
Read MoreAt Relationship Matters courses we often encourage participants to “stay curious”, but what is it about curiosity that is so powerful? Why does it soften people’s defenses, deepen connection, support learning and open the door to healing within us and with others? The answer lies deep in the neural architecture of our brains.
Read MoreKim had the privilege of speaking with Gwénaëlle Roscoe at La Cabane Sensorielle in Rennes, France about the need for trauma-sensitive practice in clinical settings. Gwénaëlle brings a wealth of knowledge as a clinician and a grounded, sensory-informed perspective to the conversation. Her deeply thoughtful questions invited rich reflection on the intersections of culture, nervous system regulation, and therapeutic attunement.
Read MoreThis September, 2025, Kim will be delivering the workshop Trauma-Sensitive Practice in São Paulo, Brazil. Kim recently sat down to speak with the host of the workshop, Coordenadora Clínica da Play Core Kids Atividades Terapêuticasto, Ana Paula Nogueira, to discuss what participants can expect from this training.
Read MoreThis November, 2025, Kim will be delivering for the first time ever, the workshop ATTACHMENT MATTERS, in Australia. Kim recently sat down to speak with the hosts of the workshop in Sydney, AUS, Sarah McInnes and Michelle Maunder, to discuss what participants can expect from this training.
Read MoreDuring a spiritual retreat hosted by Bodynamic International, guided by the world-renowned Lisbeth Marcher and assisted by Malte Nielsen, I had an unexpected insight. It was a profound “aha” moment, that I’d really like to share. For context we were gathered in the beautiful mountains of Bulgaria, not far from Greece — a place where nature itself seems to hold space for reflection — and amidst the teachings and the quiet, something gently shifted in my understanding of expressing and receiving love.
Read MoreIn late 2023, Kim was featured in Communication Matters, the magazine published by the New Zealand Speech-language Therapists' Association, discussing Becoming a Behavioural Detective. Kim is bringing this course to New Zealand in November, hosted by Mind 2 Mind Courses.
Read MoreIn this conversation, Dr. Ann Kelley and Kim explore the conscious evolution of the human spirit, the importance of self-compassion, and the integration of neuroception with therapeutic practices. Through Barthel's book, ‘Conversations with a Rattlesnake,' they dive into the significance of sensory integration and attachment in personal development. Using Porges' “Safe and Sound Protocol”, they touch on how understanding one's own nervous system and the cues of safety can lead to better emotional regulation and connection with not only oneself, but others. Follow along as they discuss the themes of trauma, healing and the science of connection.
Read MoreThis May, 2025, Kim will be delivering the workshop Psycho-Sensory Intervention in Kells, Ireland. Kim recently sat down to speak with the hosts of this workshop, Regina Donnelly & Emir Crowley, from Hand in Hand OT, to discuss what participants can expect from this training.
Read MoreIn acknowledging World Autism Month this April, Relationship Matters is offering 20% discounts (that can be added to existing discounts) on our two key courses related to Autism. To sign up for our courses: "AUTISM MATTERS" and "Treating Movement Challenges in Children with Autism Spectrum Disorder: NDT for ASD", register with the WAM20 coupon code in the month of April (OFFER STARTS APRIL 1 and ENDS APRIL 30th!).
Read MoreRelationship Matters is pleased to release another free 1-hour video, the 7th so far in our collection of Free Video Recordings. It’s called Neurodiverse-Affirming Practice in Support of Individuals with Sensory Processing Differences. Please feel free to let your colleagues and friends who might be interested know that it’s available to everyone. We’re hoping its sharing might help a little bit towards co-creating a more informed, compassionate and inclusive world.
Read MoreKim recently sat down with Ruthie Smith, an author, musician and energy psychotherapist with a long-held interest in the ‘shift’ of humanity’s awakening consciousness, and in the integration of energy and spirituality within psychotherapy. Ruthie is an attachment-based psychoanalytic psychotherapist (The Bowlby Centre, London) and energy psychotherapist with thirty-five years’ clinical experience in private practice, and ten years as a principal psychotherapist and supervisor in the National Health Service (UK). She has taught extensively on psychotherapy trainings, is invited to speak at various conference and events.
Read MoreHosted by Rupert Isaacson, best-selling author of “The Horse Boy”, "The Long Ride Home” and a long time human rights activist, in this interview Kim is asked about neuroscience, trauma and the healing power of relationships. Throughout their transformative conversation, Rupert says "Kim shares profound insights into how emotional safety, attunement, and the body’s natural wisdom guide people toward healing and empowerment.”
Read MoreHosted by Mannah, the Therapeutic Astrologer, based in Copenhagen, Denmark, Kim is invited to talk about her ultimate passion “supporting the conscious evolution of the human spirit” and its expansive tension - therapy as an opportunity to sense yourself.
Read MoreReflecting on 2024 with enormous gratitude for our colleagues, hosts, new + old friends and our many blessings. Here are some images from the last few months. Love to All.
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